Love and Relationships in my point of view.

don't know what to blog about tonight. but a friend was asking if i'd update my blog. a fan? lols.. flattered. decided to talk about a quite general topic, love and relationships. relationships can be bitter or sweet. no matter how sweet a relationship can be, it is never easy. if you want it working out, you need to work hard. keeping things in line is often hard. if you don't work hard for something, you won't succeed unless you're really blessed like in striking a $50 million lottery ticket, right? a relationship turned sour can always result to hurt often to one party. a best friend once said, "no matter how much u love a person, love goes 2 ways. if it's a one way street, someone's gonna end up hurting." it's true. i know so because i experienced it and i bet many of u have too.


here's what i think about love

love = sacrifices
because we love someone, we tend to make sacrifices. it's nice to know once in a while our love one makes a little sacrifice for you. but sometimes, make big silly ones taking risks. Hear me out, think it over and through before u do so. you won't want to regret. think about what's best for you both. i made silly sacrifices, like turning down studies away from my hometown because he didn't want me far from him. realized i should have taken the offer for study. he wasn't even worth my future.

love = commitment
if you love someone and intend to go steady with em', then show your commitment and loyalty. yes, it ain't easy. if you can't stay committed then don't start the relationship. not saying you shouldn't be with that other half, but i think that without commitment, the relationship wouldn't last anyway.

love = sweet
Love can result in sweet. it's no doubt that you'll have moments where you'll get swept off your feet. broken relationship can always be cherished. i bet you'd had your sweet moments when you were with your ex-es too in the past rite?

love = hurt
it's because u love someone that you get hurt. you won't bother that much if someone you don't like doesn't like you back. but if you love someone and he doesn't love you back it does hurt. Love isn't just a chapter of sweet happenings. if you don't have hurt, how do you know what is pleasure and what can result into happiness?

love = roller coaster ride
it goes up and down, round and round. it's exciting and sometimes scary.

love = mystery
sometimes we don't know what to expect. do we?

love = trust
if you love someone, trust them. if they really love you back, they won't let you down. if there's doubt in a relationship, it can lead to instability.

love = respect
always respect your other half. respect them, their body parts, their family, their friends, their interest, their all.

love = accepting
if you can accept a person for who he/she is then that is love. love should be unconditional where you don't have to set rules.

love = treasure
always treasure and cherish the one you love, like he/she is a piece of priceless jewel. don't wait til you've lost that person then regret. live your todays like there's no tomorrow.

love = inspiration
love should be about helping each other. through thick or thin. an inspiration to work harder to make a better person out of one's self. growing maturely together, thus making a better future for each other.

love = sharing
sharing everything together. hurt, sorrow, joy, happiness, achievement, hardship, loss, you name it all. that's what makes a relationship grow.

love = company
take time out to spend with your loved ones. enjoy their company. after all, it's more than friendship.


In my view, you don't have to be with the one you love. as long as the one you love is happy with whosoever then that is what matters. sometimes love isn't about being together. it's about having your love ones being happy. what's the point of being with someone you love but not being happy? isn't it better to see the one you love being happy even though he/she is with someone else? yes it does hurt. but at least he/she is happy. this is what i call true love. maybe it's just the wrong timing or he's just not the one. there might be someone better in store for you. the truth is, you just never know. :)


to my ladies out there, remember this:
no guy is worth your tears. the guy that's worth your tears will never make you cry.